GIRLS, stop dating bust outs!

Bitch, if he doesn't have a job.. YOU BETTER DUMP HIS ASS. WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU???? I need a man that's gonna pay my bills. LMFAO. There's no reason why you should be dating a man and you payin' for your meal and his LMFAOOOOOOOO #real.

I would love to tell you that I believe in splitting the bill, BUT I DON'T! (personal preference). If a man does not pay for me on the first date, he will never see me again. I won't be mean on my way out, he'll just see the back of my head #byeee

I believe in traditional roles in relationships. Now, you probably gonna ask me what that means. "Des, you out here thinking that a woman should be in the kitchen whippin' up a meal and the husband works all day to "bring home the bacon?"

No BITCH, but I do believe that a man should be a PROVIDER. Like I said earlier, I want a man that gon' be payin' my mf bills. #real *Alexa, play Bills by Destiny's Child* (no pun intended). My parents are happily married, and my dad is her provider. They are in love. They have been happy for a long time. My dad is her PROVIDER. My mom works because she wants to, not because she HAS to. She thinks it's fun to have something to do throughout the day because I am no longer in the house. She doesn't have to raise me. THIS IS WHAT I SEE FOR MYSELF.

I BELIEVE THAT I SHOULD CATER TO A MAN AND HE SHOULD PROVIDE.

Now, you may ask me... "What is catering to my man?"

1. giving words of affirmation (I'm so proud of you! You inspire me)

2. BE PLAYFUL! Don't be too serious.. DON'T overthink

3. help him take off his shoes

4. FEED HIM! (The way to the heart is through the stomach

5. Run him a bath

6. Turn the game on

7. Brush his hair

8. Give him a manicure

9. Put on his du-rag! (I think everyone should wear a du-rag idk) *personal preference*

10. get his slippers!

11. Keep your figure right!

12. Rock the hottest clothes!

I am ALL for feminism. If you want to work, GO DO IT! If you don't want to work, DON'T DO IT! I support women no matter what they want to do.

So, if this is resonating with you and you find your find yourself invested in a BUST OUT... We gonna have to ask ourselves a few questions LMFAO

1. Does he have a job?

2. Does he have a car?

3. Does he live with his mom or a relative?

4. Is he scamming money off his friends?

5. Are you the only person paying for dates?

6. CAN HE PAY YOUR BILLS?

Now, I do believe that there is one exception to these questions.. IF HE IS GOING TO COLLEGE, THESE QUESTIONS DO NOT APPLY.

Your man is WORKING towards SOMETHING and I think that is all I could really ask for. If he is sitting on his broke ass, we DO NOT ACCEPT HIM. #real.

In 2023, we do not date men that do NOT have their shit together LMFAO.

I just believe that men should reside in their masculine energy, and that women should reside in their feminine energy. Lately, I have noticed an imbalance in these energies.

If you are a woman and you want to reside in your masculine energy, that's totally cool. But, personally, I would rather be alone than be a provider for a man.

IT IS SO IMPORTANT FOR WOMEN TO BE INDEPENDENT. I don't want my opinions being misconstrued. I know this is a touchy subject.

I want to be able to buy my own diamonds, I wanna buy my own rings, I WANT TO HAVE ENOUGH MONEY TO PAY MY OWN BILLS, I have my degree. I don't want my man to feel like he HAS to pay for me. I want him to WANT to pay for me.

When I say "CAN HE PAY MY BILLS?" I mean "Does he have enough money to take care of me?" Not that he MUST pay your bills. LMFAOOOOOOOOO